A country of rapists
“Rape is the only crime in which the victim becomes the
accused. It is she who must prove her good reputation, her mental
soundness, and her impeccable propriety”.
Recently,
I read a report titled, “The World Most Dangerous Countries for
Women’’, released by the Thompson Reuters Foundation. The global report
listed those countries in the world that are considered unsafe for
women. Experts from five continents were asked to rank the nations of
the world on their overall perception of danger for women as well as six
high-risk categories in health threats, sexual violence, non-sexual
violence, harmful practices rooted in culture, tradition and/or
religion, lack of access to economic resources and human trafficking.
The
report, however, listed five countries as the world’s most dangerous
places to be a woman. Pakistan and India came first and second
respectively. In India, for example, women have become endangered
species, as it is said that a woman is raped every 20 minutes. To
further cement that country’s infamy, its capital, New Delhi, is
notoriously referred to as the “rape capital of the world’’.
From
rape and domestic violence to lack of health care and education,
millions of women all over the world experience daily dangers, but
nowhere more than in the five countries identified by the report as the
world’s most dangerous to be female: Afghanistan, Democratic Republic of
Congo, Pakistan, India and Somalia. The plight of women in the five
countries as highlighted in the report is the big picture of the growing
brutality women continue to face globally.
With
the recent reported crimes against Nigerian women, how long will it
take before our country is listed among those countries where being a
woman is next to living in hell? Indeed, women continue to face growing
dangers across the country. Hardly a day passes without one report or
the other about domestic violence and rape committed against women and
girls. What could be shocking is if there is any day a rape incident is
not reported in the media. Rape cases have increased astronomically. It
appears no woman is safe from being physically abused or raped in this
country.
In Nigeria, women are being raped by their husbands.
Girls raped by their fathers and uncles. Pastors have also been reported
to rape minors. The PUNCH reported one that took place even in an
orphanage recently involving a pastor. Women are still being raped by
policemen in cells across the country. The practice is called
sex-for-bail. The women often do not have any option. If they refuse,
they are soon roped into crimes they know nothing about. Some of the
reported cases have been mind-boggling.
First, let’s look at the
figures. According to a recent data released in Lagos, in 2012 alone,
according to the Ministry of Justice, 427 girls were raped. In Rivers
State, the year 2012 recorded a shocking 1, 200. In Delta State, some
policemen are currently facing trial for their role in the alleged rape
of a woman in custody.
The reported cases also border on the
bizarre. For example, what could have gone through the mind of a man who
repeatedly raped his eight-year-old daughter over many days as well as
his one month old baby? This strange tale was reported the other day. In
Benue State, at the height of the devastating flood that wrecked havoc
on lives and property in the state, about 19 women (both married and
single) who had taken refuge in a camp for the homeless were raped by
unknown men who invaded the camp. In Zamfara, a police inspector is
under investigation for allegedly raping a 15-year-old girl. In Bauchi
State, a few days ago, a woman was brutally raped and stabbed in the
presence of her two children by a commercial motorcyclist.
The
police said they will not prosecute the case unless the offender owns up
to the crime! It is the victim’s words against the rapist’s! Another
reported case of rape happened in an orphanage home in Ogun State last
week. The case involved the owner of the orphanage and a little girl. It
is noteworthy that the owner of the home has been operating since 1986.
How can a paedophile be given the licence to operate an orphanage? In
Jigawa State, a gang of rapists was arrested for repeatedly raping a
12-year-old girl and infecting her with HIV.
The list of rape
cases is endless. It happens in all the states of the federation. Even
elderly women are not spared. In Opi, Enugu State, elderly women and
widows are still being serially raped by unknown men since 2012. No one
has been caught. Rape is a notoriously under-reported crime, thanks to
the social stigma associated with the crime. In most cases, the culprits
are known to the victims. Yet, of all the major crimes, the incidence
of rape has registered the highest growth in the country in recent
years.
In India, it took the gang-rape of a 23-year-old girl for
the country to erupt in outrage. In Nigeria, the response after a brutal
rape of a minor is usually a shrug of the shoulder, something like, God
forbid! It has become normal to hear reports of rape. Nobody cares. Or
so it seems. As long as the victim is not a relative, we often ignore
and move on. It is sad. It is this same lethargic response to rape that
is demonstrated by the government and law enforcement agents.
It
is impossible to report an incident of rape to the police. The burden is
always on the victim to prove that she has been abused. Most times, the
victim is mocked by the same officers who are assigned to handle the
cases. With the slow judicial system, victims often do not get justice.
Women
have also been blamed for inviting rape. The victim of rape is often
blamed for seducing the rapist as if any woman enjoys being raped. That
line of argument to me is barbaric and unconscionable. Those in this
school of thought believe that a woman invites the rapist when she wears
a certain kind of dress. I consider this thinking warped that somebody
would go out to rape a woman because he is enchanted by her dress.
The
question I want to ask is, if certain clothing promotes rape, how about
the increasing cases of rape of minors and one-month-old babies? Do
those kids also dress to kill? This attitude of blaming the victim is
one reason why women never get justice for being raped. The patriarchal
nature of our society also negatively affects women.
In most parts
of Nigeria, women are still viewed as the objects of pleasure. They are
even considered as property to be owned. Consequently, rape cases are
not considered a crime worth pursuing.
Too many rape cases have
occurred without justice for the victims. In some cases, the parents of
rape victims even seek to drop cases against the abusers. The lethargy
and connivance of the police, the lethargy of the courts to diligently
prosecute rapists have left our daughters, women and girls vulnerable.
Ultimately, the failure to prosecute offenders has emboldened the
potential rapist because he knows he will always get away with the
crime.
This is one reason why the cases of rape have multiplied in
recent times. Even with the threat of life imprisonment for offenders,
rape incidents continue to grab the headlines.
The social stigma
associated with crime also ensures that victims suffer in silence. The
growing cases of rape in the country and the impunity with which the
crime is committed should provoke our anger. Nigerians cannot continue
to play the ostrich. That your relative is not a victim today does not
mean she will not be a victim some day. Just like in India, we must all
rise up to condemn the crime of rape.
The Police must investigate
and prosecute all reported cases of rape to serve as a deterrent to
others. Government at all levels and concerned stakeholders must work
together to stop this growing and debilitating incidence of rape because
a society that cannot protect its women and girls cannot claim to be a
civilised society.
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